Read the anecdote. I’m a nurse, one time for Valentine’s Day I brought little satin hearts for my co-workers to pin in them. They were different sizes. There was a Dr there; when I was handing them out, someone decided he should have the largest one. Later a family member comes to the desk asking for the Dr, my coworker says “oh he’s down that way, he’s the one with the big heart on”… The misunderstanding by the family member may have happened because